CHOOSE THE RIGHT GIFT
It’s that time of the year once again when we make our Christmas lists for those we plan to bless. We will try to find the right gift for the right person. Sometimes it will be a practical gift, sometimes a whimsical gift. I especially love getting gifts from those who have given much thought and time into their gifts. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Their time involved in my gift speaks much more than the cost. It says to me that ‘I am special’ to have been considered so thoughtfully.
The same with compliments. A compliment can be a great motivator. Particularly if you put a little thought into the why, when, and how of delivering it. If you are in the public workforce, be sure to comment whenever someone on your staff keeps working in the face of rejection, handles a difficult situation well, catches an error, given another employee a helping hand, sells a particular product for the first time, or gives you a lead that proves fruitful. Most of the time, a compliment should be given in public, either at a meeting or on the company bulletin board. If the situation is delicate, convey your praise through a personal note that the employee can share with his family. As with all regards, praise should be given immediately after good performance to provide the greatest reinforcement. My students invariably do better when they are praised. We all have a need to be rewarded and noticed.
“They helped every one his neighbor; and every one said to his brother, Be of good courage. So the carpenter encouraged the goldsmith, and he that smootheth with the hammer him that smote the anvil, saying, It is ready for the soldering; and he fastened it with nails, that it should not be moved.” (Isaiah 41:6-7)
How sweet it is when everyone works together, unselfishly and in harmony, building one another up and encouraging one another. Then the atmosphere is right for success. Failure is sure to happen when the opposite is the case. I prefer success every day! I like encouraging one another, spending time to show appreciation to those who deserve it. I like encouraging those who are depressed as well. It does wonders! Choose the right gift for those you come in contact with on a daily basis. Gifts are not earned but are freely given. Remember a gift can be just a nice compliment. It’s the love behind the gift that matters.
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