REVENGE VS. LOVE
A story is told of a man who stepped outside his Mid-Western home on his birthday and found two tons of manure piled eight feet high on his front lawn. The present, compliments of his brother on the West Coast, was the latest in an outlandish gift-giving war that erupted between the two when the Mid-Westerner sent his sibling one of those “insulting” birthday cards. He got 50 back. Recently the Mid-Westerner received a pet rock that tipped the scale at 4,000 pounds. He responded with 10 tons of pebbles and a note telling his brother that the pet rock had babies. Over the years, gifts between the two have also included a full-grown elephant and two busloads of choirboys. Which goes to show, it’s not just the thought that counts.
How do you feel when you have spent time on a project and someone comes along and ruins it? Maybe you’ve just bought a new car and someone parks next to you and puts a dent in the door of your car? Did thoughts of revenge well up inside of you? Anger and the desire for revenge are powerful emotions. When these emotions are not checked, they will eventually lead to ungodly behavior. I heard on the news yesterday that now some docters are saying that road rage and bursts of anger are actually a mental disorder. In other words, now you will be able to justify your fits of anger. It’s not your fault you have this problem. Probably your parents! Hogwash!
Exodus 22:6 says; “If a fire breaks out and spreads into thornbushes so that it burns shocks of grain or standing grain or the whole field, the one who started the fire must make restitution.” God made provisions for how to balance the scales of justice for behavior and loss, damage or injury. Even though we have these laws, there are no laws that can constrain the evil and wickedness that infects our hearts. All that laws can do are to show us how sick our hearts can be. It is up to us to receive healing. Do I really want to fulfill the demands of revenge or do I want to understand and show compassion? What are the things that set-off my anger? When we take the high road, we can be above the situation. When we say no to anger and yes to compassion and love, we win every time.
Father, as Jesus forgave His murderers, help us to forgive those who treat us unjustly. Help us to turn revenge into love. Amen.
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